Monday, October 26, 2009

Take a Look Around

Ok, so if you're viewing this in Bloglines or Google Reader you'll have to click over. Things look a bit different. Let me know if you see anything that needs tweaking. It's not a perfect template but it is something with a different feel to get me back here again.

In the end, this is my space. It has been my space for four years and I'm not leaving it. I have talked to one of the members of my ex's family and explained to her my concern with this space. What they choose to do with that information is up to them. It becomes their decision what they read and what they don't.

I spent most of last week in one hell of a funk. I missed my blog. So, when I went to dinner with M on Friday night we talked about it. About what he wants as far as privacy from me and what he doesn't care if I share. His feelings are that this is my outlet. My therapy.

So, I'm back. New look and all.

Now about that tattoo I've been considering.....

6 comments:

Candy said...

I like this, very nice and fresh, and good for you, this is your space, the heck with them, but NO Tattoo!

Laura said...

It's lovely Heather! Glad to have you back.

kbreints said...

yep... this will take some getting used to... but I like the change! Good for you!

electriclady said...

love the new look!

Anonymous said...

I was reading your "about me" section, (the new design really IS fresh when it causes me to notice things which were probably already there but un-noticed!) and you talk about being in the box. I had a real question about that. What does it feel like you DO, with all the time that used to be spent worrying if J was being good, staying clean, wanting to use,,,,and on and on. The constant worry. I was thinking about that box thing and also thinking how your whole life was wrapped up in those thoughts. What fills that now? Lots of things? Major things like your lil man? Just quiet peace? I guess I'm curious because whatever fills it now, would be like a story about you. The things which are true to you, coming back and taking over instead. I hope that made even a scrap of sense and didn't seem like prying. I long to be happy for you, and hearing how you grow and change does make me happy.

Connie said...

I'm happy that you get to be you....and I like the look. The tattoo, still a 'NO' from me. Sorry!